IN MARRIAGE, IT IS ABSOLUTEY ESSENTIAL THAT THE RELATIONSHIP BE BASED ON FAITH, TRUST AND FREEDOM - AND NOT ON CONTROL. Control is an evil weapon. God, on the contrary, never forces us to do anything, even when it is for our own good. God instituted free will and is unwilling to violate it. God said: "See, I set before you today life and prosperity, death and destruction." (Deut. 30:15) When someone wants to "control" someone else, the result is oppression. In this type of r