Are you "too nice"...
a codependent perhaps?
Do you lack self-esteem?
If your partner has mistreated you, do you beg him for love anyways?
Do you allow people to disrespect you?
Do men usually take you for granted, use you or cheat on you?
Do you need constant love, praise, or reassurance?
Are you happy to do favors for others, but have a hard time accepting one?
Do people know you as a "push-over"?
Are you doing things that you don’t want to do – just to keep other people happy?
If someone is mad at you, do you always think it’s your fault?
Are you always doubting yourself?
Being too nice is a prison...
If you have answered "yes" to 3 or more of these questions, then you are definitely "too nice", a "people pleaser", and this is NOT a good way to live
Because when we are "too nice", life sucks.... :(
I know it first hand - I used to be "too nice", a people-pleaser, a co-dependent... it doesn't matter the name we use, the result is the same:
- people take us for granted
- our partners don't respect us
- we create asymmetric, toxic, unhealthy relationships
- we don't know what we want
- we are incredibly indecisive
- we always give in to the other person's wishes
- we don't express our wishes, our voice
- we are full of self-doubt
- people take advantage of us
- we don't know how to defend ourselves
- the more we try to make a relationship work, the worse it goes
- we accept love crumbs
- even if our partner has been hateful, we still beg for his attention
Enough is enough!
It is time to become Emotionally Strong!!
Discovering your value
will reveal your beauty!
Emotional Strength will allow you to:
> Be free from the opinion of others
> Be strong to defend your opinions and rights
> Have people respect you
> Have a beautiful romantic relationship
> Teach your children to obey you
> Believe unapologetically in yourself
> Have the courage to pursue your dreams
And this is what it looks like!
My name is Barbara and this is my story....
I too was an emotionally weak person. I lacked self-esteem, would allow disrespect from others and greatly feared disappointing them. I felt totally taken for granted by my husband and had a toxic marriage.
Although I was an acomplished woman, with a Bachelors degree in Computer Science from the US and an MBA from the UK, I didn't understand my value as a person, and even less as a woman.
In my relationship, I would beg for love even if my partner had mistreated me and every time we would have a fight, I would feel a panic attack at the thought of our relationship ending.
Additionally, because I needed to feel my children’s love all the time, I became permissive with them. And even if 100 people would tell me I was doing a good job, it sufficed that one of them would tell me otherwise, for me to feel terrible about myself.
But then I healed my emotional wounds. I uncovered the subconscious beliefs that were dictating my life and had turned me into a people pleaser. Through the help of coaches and mentors, I transformed my mindset and was set free!
This gave me the courage to leave my toxic relationship behind for good and only a few months later, I manifested a wonderful man, and I finally have the relationship I had ALWAYS dreamt of!
I have helped many women over the past 10 years believe in themselves, manifest the love of their lives, develop healthy and passionate relationships, and completely turn around their lives!
Healthy LOVE is possible,
but you need to heal your emotional wounds first!
This is my 7 step formula to the KICK-ASS YOU:
Uncover and heal your hidden blockages
Discover your worth and know what you want
Get rid of toxic people in your life
Don't throw your pearls to the pigs
Don't give in - negotiate solutions
Believe unapologetically in yourself
Follow your heart and be courageous
Since I have Barbara as my coach, my life has changed 180 degrees!
When I started working with Barbara, my inner and outer lives were in a state of chaos and deep sadness. Barbara put a mirror to my eyes, and through her unending patience and techniques, enabled me to recognize, reflect, and finally terminate my negative patterns and toxic relationships.
And my new self-love enabled me to receive the love of my life!!!
Thank you so much, Barbara, for all your great teachings and for your spot-on advice!
You are an excellent professional and wonderful motivator. Your guidance has enabled me to embark on amazing professional projects for my life, from start to finish.
And on a personal level, I have even found the love of my life!!!
A huge thank you to you!
Barbara helped me tremendously in difficult moments.
Her advice, support and motivation gave me the strength to escape the prison of a toxic relationship which had no solution, and become free and allow the love of my life to come into my life!!
Barbara is a great professional and a lovely person as well.