Are you too nice?
Do you lack self-esteem?
Do you allow people to disrespect you?
Are you happy to do favors for others, but have a hard time accepting one?
Do you need constant love, praise, or reassurance?
Are you doing things that you don’t want to do – just to keep other people happy?
If someone is mad at you, do you always think it’s your fault?
If your partner has mistreated you, do you beg him for love anyways?
Are you always doubting yourself?
Being too nice is a prison...
This is NOT a good way to live
Because when we are "too nice", life sucks.... :(
I know it first hand - I used to be "too nice", a people-pleaser, a co-dependent... it doesn't matter the name we use, the result is the same:
- people take us for granted
- our partners don't respect us
- we create asymmetric, toxic, unhealthy relationships
- we don't know what we want
- we are incredibly indecisive
- we always give in to the other person's wishes
- we don't express our wishes, our voice
- we are full of self-doubt
- people take advantage of us
- we don't know how to defend ourselves
- the more we try to make a relationship work, the worse it goes
- we accept love crumbs
- even if our partner has been hateful, we still beg for his attention
Enough is enough!
It is time to become Emotionally Strong!!
Emotional Strength will allow you to:
> Be free from the opinion of others
> Be strong to defend your opinions and rights
> Have people respect you
> Have a beautiful romantic relationship
> Teach your children to obey you
> Believe unapologetically in yourself
> Have the courage to pursue your dreams
My name is Barbara and this is my story
I too was an emotionally weak person. I would allow disrespect from others and didn't feel appreciated. I lacked self-esteem and had a toxic marriage.
Additionally, because I needed to feel my children’s love all the time, I became permissive with them. And even if 100 people would tell me I was doing a good job, it sufficed that one of them would tell me otherwise, for me to feel terrible about myself.
But then I learned the truth, and the truth set me free! And it is this truth that I am here to share with you, so that you too can be set free! Nothing gives me more pleasure in life.
I have helped many women over the past 10 years believe in themselves, develop healthy and passionate relationships, and completely turn around their lives!
Now I want to help you!
Become Emotionally Strong and take charge of your life!
My heart has guided me to create this program designed to help you achieve EMOTIONAL STRENGTH. This means that you can enjoy affection – give it and receive it – but not be dependent on it. This means that you will learn to find win-win solutions, instead of sacrificing yourself at the other's expense. It means that you will not be afraid of being yourself, even if the other person doesn’t like it. It means that you will have the inner strength to confront people and difficulties and never again let anyone manipulate you through fear, pity or guilt.
And once you do, you will truly begin to live a wonderful life. You will become the FREE and STRONG PERSON you long to be!!
Believing in yourself
will make you powerful!
Discovering your value
will reveal your beauty!
This is my 10 step formula to the KICK-ASS YOU:
1. Uncover and heal your subconscious beliefs
2. Get rid of toxic people in your life
3. Don't sacrifice yourself - negotiate solutions
4. Don't throw your pearls to the pigs
5. Don't tolerate disrespect
6. Don't make yourself responsible for the well-being of others
7. Follow your heart
8. Believe unapologetically in yourself
9. Face your fears and take risks
10. Go for your dreams
Since I have Barbara as my coach, my life has changed 180 degrees!
When I started working with Barbara, my inner and outer lives were in a state of chaos and deep sadness. Barbara put a mirror to my eyes, and through her unending patience and techniques, enabled me to recognize, reflect, and finally terminate my negative patterns and toxic relationships.
And my new self-love enabled me to receive the love of my life ...!
Thank you so much, Barbara, for all your great teachings and for your spot-on advice!
You are an excellent professional and wonderful motivator. Your guidance has enabled me to embark on amazing professional projects for my life, from start to finish.
And on a personal level, I have even found the love of my life!!!
A huge thank you to you!
Barbara helped me tremendously in difficult moments.
Her advice, support and motivation gave me the strength to escape the prison of a toxic relationship which had no solution, and become free and allow the love of my life to come into my life!
Barbara is a great professional and a lovely person as well.